The Catholic bishops of NZ have have issued a clear and encouraging letter to the young people of NZ.
While the 'Kiwi's of Generation Y" are their target audience, this letter highlights the key aspects of the current 'same-sex marriage' debate for all Catholics and for all New Zealanders.
From the Beginning of Creation
Pastoral Letter from the Catholic Bishops of New Zealand
to young New Zealanders.
Dear Kiwis of Generation Y
As the people who entered adulthood in this
millennium you are being wooed by politicians and advertisers. Your choices
will help shape our nation. One such choice is the present legislation about
amending the definition of marriage to include same-sex couples. The lobby that
promoted and achieved the Civil Unions bill now say that this does not go far
enough.
We would like you to consider carefully the
wider implications of this major social change.
Why should you care?
Marriage is a fundamental structure in our
society. Every one of us was born into a family, each of us has parents. The
legal status of married couples is a long-established recognition by society of
how important the family unit is, most especially to the children who grow up
in that family. How marriage is defined affects us all; changing that
definition will have many consequences, including with respect to adoption and
throughout the education system. Some consequences will be unexpected and unintended. This is no small matter, nor quibbling
about words; this is an attempt to re-engineer the status and structure of
family life in New Zealand and elsewhere.
Why oppose?
When Jesus was discussing marriage with his
disciples he observed
“From the
beginning of creation, 'God made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man shall leave his father
and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.' So
they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together,
let no one separate." (Mark 10:6-9)
The reality, as Jesus observed, is that male
and female pair with each other. Males and females are different and
complementary, each has a significant role to play in the nurturing of children.
We come from one family and we set out to make another one. Marriage is not
merely a human construction, it is the legal recognition of something natural.
Civil law reflects and protects human nature. Society promotes and affirms the
married state for the sake of the couple and for the sake of their children.
The Church considers marriage to be the first blessing from the Creator and
celebrates it as a sacrament. Christians did not invent marriage; it has been
part of every human society throughout history. Legislators did not invent marriage; when the
laws were written they were taking account of a pre-existing reality. We
address this letter to you, rather than only to church members, because of the
universality of marriage.
Marriage promotes love and generates life.
Love, friendship, and commitment exist in many forms, but only the bond between
one man and one woman, intending to live together and hoping to have and raise
children, is dignified with the name and legal status of “marriage”. The couple
vow to love and honour each other and New Zealand law and custom have responded
by recognising that commitment and honouring it with a unique recognition.
Is
this simply a question of equal rights?
Marriage is never a universal human right.
Not all persons can or should be married. While the immediate focus of the
current proposal is whether a marriage must involve a man and a woman, the argument
for change applies far more widely. Claiming
“freedom of preference” and a universal “right to marry” would call monogamy
itself into question. This denies the
right to the truth about what marriage is, and about what the Church teaches on
sexuality and marriage.
For the sake of married couples, their
children and society as a whole, we ask you to oppose any change to the legal
definition of marriage.